Without Natural Affection

Text: 2 Tim. 3:3

Introduction:

  1. A young woman while attending her high school prom gave birth in the bathroom, left the baby in a trash can and returned to the dance floor with her boyfriend. Chaperones and medics tried to resuscitate the baby but were unsuccessful. The baby was pronounced dead at a local hospital. A maintenance worker who had been told there was blood on the floor of one toilet stall found the baby Friday night. The worker found blood splattered on the walls, toilet and floor, and the trash can containing the baby's body was inside the stall.

Later autopsies revealed that the baby had been strangled to death (whether deliberately or by the umbilical cord is not known).

  1. A mother in Texas left her two kids with a stranger while she went to get cigarettes. She never returned. Authorities are still trying to identify who the kids are and who their parent(s) are.
  1. Karen Smith, fearing her boyfriend would "dump her" because of her kids, straps them into their car seats and pushes the car down a hill into a pond where the kids drown.
  2. These are all examples, which could be multiplied 100 fold, of people who are "without natural affection."
  3. What a Description! Not "without affection" but "natural affection."
  4. There is a love that should just be natural even in our sinful condition. Many animals have a natural affection for their young. Bears protect their cubs, dogs care for their litter, etc.
  5. Spiritual Love: agaph
  6. Brotherly Love: filew
  7. Sexual Love: eroV
  8. Natural affection: storgh
  1. The Evidence that We are becoming a Nation Without Natural Affection
    1. Statistics
      1. 1.2 million abortions in 1995 (last year we have stats)
        1. while down 200,000 than 1990, still way too high
        2. 99% were elective in nature
      2. Growing acceptance of euthanasia
        1. Inability to convict Jack Kevorkian
        2. Sunday, Nov. 2, 1997 NY Times Article
        3. Steven Pinker, a professor of psychology at MIT argues that killing a newborn infant should not be penalized as harshly as killing an older child. "To a biologist, birth is as arbitrary a milestone as any other." According to Pinker, babies aren't real people because they don't have "an ability to reflect upon (themselves) as a continuous locus of consciousness, to from and savor plans for the future, to dread death and to express the choice not to die. [Note: they may not express it verbally, but they do by their action you idiot] Our immature neonates don't possess these traits any more than mice do."

        4. Former Governor of Colorado Richard Lamm suggested that old people have a "duty to get out of the way"
        5. He suggested that when the time is right, leaves fall off the tree to make way for new ones. However, he is trying himself to delay that time by exercising in the gym. Before debating this topic, he worked out at the gym of a local hotel. If he has a duty to get out of the way, then why continue to exercise at his age?

        6. Hastings Center Report cover article in March/April issue

      Written by John Hardwig and is entitled "Is There A Duty To Die?" He claims "there may be a fairly common responsibility to end one's life in the absence of any terminal illness. There can be a duty to die even when we would prefer to live." After all, "the lives or our loved ones can be seriously compromised by caring for us...[the same argument could be used for child rearing] There is a sense in which we fail to respect ourselves if in the face of illness or death, we stoop to choosing just what is best for ourselves."

      He uses high sounding moral arguments to justify the immoral.

    2. Abortion Procedures
      1. Neonatal development
        1. "The Unborn Person Is Also a Patient" presented by a group of more than two hundred doctors, many of them members of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology, in a Friend of the Court Brief filed before the United States Supreme Court, said:
        2. From conception the child is a complex, dynamic, rapidly growing organism. By a natural and continuous process the single fertilized ovum will, over approximately nine months, develop into the trillions of cells of the newborn. The natural end of the sperm and ovum is death unless fertilization occurs. At fertilization a new and unique being is created which, although receiving one-half of its chromosomes from each parent, is really unlike either.

          About seven to nine days after conception, when there are already several hundred cells of the new individual formed, contact with the uterus is made and implantation begins. Blood cells begin at 17 days and a heart as early as 18 days. This embryonic heart which begins as a simple tube starts regular pulsations at 24 days, which, in about one week, smooth into a rhythmic contraction and expansion.

          Straus, et al. have shown that the ECG on a 23 mm embryo (7.5 weeks) presents the existence of a functionally complete cardiac system.... All the classic elements of the adult ECG were seen....

          Commencing at 18 days the developmental emphasis is on the nervous system even though other vital organs, such as the heart, are commencing development at the same time. Such early development is necessary since the nervous system integrates the action of all other systems. By the end of the 20th day the foundation of the child's brain, spinal cord and entire nervous system will have been established. By the 6th week after conception this system will have developed so well that it is controlling movements of the baby's muscles, even though the woman may not be aware that she is pregnant. By the 33rd day the cerebral cortex, that part of the central nervous system that governs motor activity as well as intellect may be seen.

          The baby's eyes begin to form at 19 days. By the end of the first month the foundation of the brain, spinal cord, nerves and sense organs is completely formed. By 28 days the embryo has the building blocks for 40 pairs of muscles situated from the base of its skull to the lower end of its spinal column. By the end of the first month the child has completed the period of relatively greatest size increase and the greatest physical change of a lifetime. He or she is ten thousand times larger than the fertilized egg and will increase its weight six billion times by birth, having in only the first month gone from the one cell state to millions of cells.

          By the beginning of the second month the unborn child, small as it is, looks distinctly human. Yet, by this time the child's mother is not even aware that she is pregnant.

          At the end of the first month the child is about 1/4 of an inch in length. At 30 days the primary brain is present and the eyes, ears and nasal organs have started to form. Although the heart is still incomplete, it is beating regularly and pumping blood cells through a closed vascular system. The child and mother do not exchange blood, the child having from a very early point in its development its own and complete vascular system.

          Earliest reflexes begin as early as the 42nd day. The male penis begins to form. The child is almost 1/2 inch long and cartilage has begun to develop.

          Even at 5 1/2 weeks the fetal heartbeat is essentially similar to that of an adult in general configuration.

          By the end of the seventh week we see a well proportioned small-scale baby. [Emphasis added.] In its seventh week, it bears the familiar external features and all the internal organs of the adult, even though it is less than an inch long and weighs only 1/30th of an ounce. The body has become nicely rounded, padded with muscles and covered by a thin skin. The arms are only as long as printed exclamation marks, and have hands with fingers and thumbs. The slower growing legs have recognizable knees, ankles and toes.

          The new body not only exists, it also functions. The brain in configuration is already like the adult brain and sends out impulses that coordinate the function of the other organs. The brainwaves have been noted at 43 days. The heart beats sturdily. The stomach produces digestive juices. The liver manufactures blood cells and the kidneys begin to function by extracting uric acid from the child's blood. The muscles of the arms and body can already be set in motion.

          After the eighth week no further primordia will form; everything is already present that will be found in the full term baby.1 As one author describes this period: "A human face with eyelids half closed as they are in someone who is about to fall asleep. Hands that soon will begin to grip, feet trying their first gentle kicks."

          From this point until adulthood, when full growth is achieved somewhere between 25 and 27 years, the changes in the body will be mainly in dimension and in gradual refinement of the working parts.

          The development of the child, while very rapid, is also very specific. The genetic pattern set down in the first day of life instructs the development of a specific anatomy. The ears are formed by seven weeks and are specific, and may resemble a family pattern. The lines in the hands start to be engraved by eight weeks and remain a distinctive feature of the individual.

          The primitive skeletal system has completely developed by the end of six weeks. This marks the end of the child's embryonic (from Greek, to swell or teem within) period. From this point, the child will be called a fetus (Latin, young one or offspring).

          In the third month, the child becomes very active. By the end of the month he can kick his legs, turn his feet, curl and fan his toes, make a fist, move his thumb, bend his wrist, turn his head, squint, frown, open his mouth, press his lips tightly together. He can swallow and drinks the amniotic fluid that surrounds him. Thumb sucking is first noted at this age. The first respiratory motions move fluid in and out of his lungs with inhaling and exhaling respiratory movements.

          The prerequisites for motion are muscles and nerves. In the sixth to seventh weeks, nerves and muscles work together for the first time. If the area of the lips, the first to become sensitive to touch, is gently stroked, the child responds by bending the upper body to one side and making a quick backward motion with his arms. This is called a total pattern response because it involves most of the body, rather than a local part. Localized and more appropriate reactions such as swallowing follow in the third month. By the beginning of the ninth week, the baby moves spontaneously without being touched. Sometimes his whole body swings back and forth for a few moments. By eight and a half weeks the eyelids, and the palms of the hands become sensitive to touch. If the eyelid is stroked, the child squints. On stroking the palm, the fingers close into a small fist.

          In the ninth and tenth weeks, the child's activity leaps ahead. Now if the forehead is touched, he may turn his head away and pucker up his brow and frown. He now has full use of his arms and can bend the elbow and wrist independently. In the same week, the entire body becomes sensitive to touch.

          The twelfth week brings a whole new range of responses. The baby can now move his thumb in opposition to his fingers. He now swallows regularly. He can pull up his upper lip; the initial step in the development of the sucking reflex. By the end of the twelfth week, the quality of muscular response is altered. It is no longer marionette-like or mechanical - the movements are now graceful and fluid, as they are in the newborn. The child is active and the reflexes are becoming more vigorous. All this is before the mother feels any movement....

          Every child shows a distinct individuality in his behavior by the end of the third month. This is because the actual structure of the muscles varies from baby to baby. The alignment of the muscles of the face, for example, follow an inherited pattern.

          Further refinements are noted in the third month. The fingernails appear. The child's face becomes much prettier. His eyes, previously far apart, now move closer together. The eyelids close over the eyes. Sexual differentiation is apparent in both internal and external sex organs, and primitive eggs and sperm are formed. The vocal cords are completed. In the absence of air they cannot produce sound; the child cannot cry aloud until birth although he is capable of crying long before.

          The taste buds and salivary glands develop in this month, as do the digestive glands in the stomach. When the baby swallows amniotic fluid, its contents are utilized by the child. The child starts to urinate.

          From the twelfth to the sixteenth week, the child grows very rapidly. His weight increases six times, and he grows to eight to ten inches in height. For this incredible growth spurt the child needs oxygen and food. This he receives from his mother through the placental attachment - much like he receives food from her after he is born. His dependence does not end with expulsion into the external environment. We now know that the placenta belongs to the baby, not the mother, as was long thought.

          In the fifth month, the baby gains two inches in height and ten ounces in weight. By the end of the month he will be about one foot tall and will weigh one pound. Fine baby hair begins to grow on his eyebrows and on his head and a fringe of eyelashes appear. Most of the skeleton hardens. The baby's muscles become much stronger, and as the child becomes larger his mother finally perceives his many activities. The child's mother comes to recognize the movement and can feel the baby's head, arms and legs. She may even perceive a rhythmic jolting movement - fifteen to thirty per minute. This is due to the child hiccoughing .... The doctor can already hear the heartbeat with his stethoscope.

          The baby sleeps and wakes just as it will after birth. When he sleeps he invariably settles into his favorite position called his "lie". Each baby has a characteristic lie. When he awakens he moves about freely in the buoyant fluid turning from side to side, and frequently head over heel. Sometimes his head will be up and sometimes it will be down. He may sometimes be aroused from sleep by external vibrations. He may wake up from a loud tap on the tub when his mother is taking a bath. A loud concert or the vibrations of a washing machine may also stir him into activity. The child hears . . . his mother's voice before birth.

          In the sixth month, the baby will grow about two more inches, to become fourteen inches tall. He will also begin to accumulate a little fat under his skin and will increase his weight to a pound and three-quarters. This month the permanent teeth buds come in high in the gums behind the milk teeth. Now his closed eyelids will open and close, and his eyes look up, down and sideways. Dr. Liley feels that the child may perceive light through the abdominal wall. Dr. Stiff has noted that electroencephalographic waves have been obtained in forty-three to forty-five day old fetuses, and so conscious experience is possible after this date.

          In the sixth month, the child develops a strong muscular grip with his hands. He also starts to breathe regularly and can maintain respiratory response for twenty-four hours if born prematurely. He may even have a slim chance of surviving in an incubator. The youngest children known to survive were between twenty to twenty-five weeks old .2

          Note especially the statement: "By the end of the seventh week we see a well-proportioned small scale baby." This is before most abortions are performed. An abortion is not simply a medical procedure performed on a woman; it involves a "well-proportioned small scale baby."

        3. Dr. Bernard Nathanson adds an interesting point:
        4. The modern science of immunology has shown us that the unborn child is not a part of a woman's body in the same sense that her kidney or her heart is. Immunologic studies have demonstrated beyond cavil that when a pregnancy implants itself into the wall of the uterus at the eighth day following conception the defense mechanisms of the body, principally the white blood cells, sense that this creature now settling down for a lengthy stay is an intruder, an alien, and must be expelled. Therefore an intense immunological attack is mounted on the pregnancy by the white blood cell elements, and through an ingenious and extraordinarily efficient defense system the unborn child succeeds in repelling the attack. In ten percent or so of cases the defensive system fails and the pregnancy is lost as a spontaneous abortion or miscarriage.

        5. Quotes
          1. The eminent embryologist, Dr. Bradley M. Patten states, "It is the penetration of the ovum by a spermatozoon and the resultant mingling of the nuclear material each brings to the union that constitutes the culmination of the process of fertilization and marks the initiation of the life of a new individual."
          2. R. Lillie: "The elements that unite are single cells, each on the point of death, but by their union a rejuvenated individual is formed."
          3. Geraldine Lux Flanagan: "A baby begins life as a single cell, smaller than the period at the end of this sentence."
          4. Blechschmidt: "A human being does not become a human being but rather is such from the instant of its fertilization."
          5. Ashley Montagu: "Life begins, not at birth, but at conception.... in spite of his newness and his appearance, he is a living, striving human being from the very beginning."
          6. Consider these statements by fetal/biological experts given during a congressional hearing in 1981.
          1. Planned Parenthood pamphlet: (Note: they are the nation's biggest abortion provider)
          1. May 15, 1989, statement by Faye Wattleton, then president of Planned Parenthood, on NBC:>
          1. September 6, 1991, dialogue involving Faye Wattleton on Donahue, according to Transcript #3288:
          1. Modern technology with its array of miniature cameras, sonogram machines, and ultra sound equipment has now allowed us to take a glimpse into the development of the baby from conception on. Consider the following:
          2. Brief Synopsis of Fetal Development

First Month

conception: all human characteristics are present

heart muscle pulsates at three weeks

head, arms, and legs begin to appear

Second Month

brain waves can be detected (40-42 days)

nose, eyes, ears, and toes appear

heart beats and blood (her own type) flows

skeleton develops

unique fingerprints

sensitive to touch on lips and has reflexes

all bodily systems are present and functioning

Third Month

swallows, squints, and swims

grasps with hands, moves tongue

sucks thumb

feels organic pain (8 to 13 weeks)

Fourth Month

weight increases six times

grows up to eight to ten inches long

hears her mother's voice

Fifth Month (Viability)

skin, hair, and nails develop

dreams

can cry if air is present

can live outside the womb

      1. Abortion Procedures
        1. Suction Aspiration
          1. used on 80% of abortions up to 12th week of pregnancy
          2. mouth of the cervix is dilated
          3. hollow tube with knifelike edged tip is inserted into the womb
          4. a suction machine with force 28 times greater than a vacuum cleaner literally rips the developing baby to pieces and sucks the remains into a container to be disposed of.
        2. Dilation and Curettage (D & C)
          1. dilate cervix to allow the insertion of curetta-a loop-shaped knife-into the womb
          2. instrument scrapes placenta from the uterus and cuts baby apart; pieces are
          3. drawn through the cervix
          4. baby is re-assembled to be sure that all parts are accounted for
          5. if parts are left inside, the mother could bleed or become infected
        3. D & E or Dilation and Evacuation
          1. Used between 12 and 24 weeks.
          2. Here, too, the child is cut to pieces by a sharp knife, as in D & C, only it is a much larger and far more developed child, weighing as much as a pound, and measuring as much as a foot in length. A newspaper report on abortion and live births describes it:

          It involves dismembering the fetus while still in the womb, which eliminates any possibility of live birth. It is a relatively new procedure in late abortions and is generally believed to be among the safest for women and the least psychologically painful. However, it is also generally considered the most traumatic for doctors and staff... [The use of this method] in second trimester abortions [twelfth to twenty-fourth week] has increased greatly in recent years.

        4. Saline Injection
          1. amniotic fluid is removed and replaced with a toxic saline solution
          2. baby ingest the toxins and dies 1-2 hours later from salt poisoning, dehydration, and hemorrhaging
          3. 24 hours later the mother goes into labor delivering a dead baby
          4. Consider the following description:
          5. Sometime during the next hour comes the most difficult part (and the part most likely not to be told to the woman considering abortion). More difficult than making The Choice, more difficult than seeing that huge needle bearing down on the stomach, is the time when the saline begins to affect the preborn and s/he begins to react to it with the basic tools for survival used by every living creature - fight or flight. The preborn kicks, thrusts, and writhes. Soon, since s/he can neither fight the poison nor run from it, the convulsions begin. The death throes of the preborn can be very uncomfortable for the mother; she can ... feel ... them [if the child is 20 weeks old or more]. There is no escape for her either. After the preborn dies labor begins, followed by delivery of the infant and the afterbirth (that is, if all goes according to plan).

          6. Curt Young writes of the effect of saline solution on the child:

          Because the salt is so concentrated, it chemically burns human tissue. The child assaulted with saline looks as though he has succumbed to an attack with napalm. Much of the outer skin has simply been burned away.

          No one can imagine how excruciating the pain is. We do know that physicians recognize immediately the effect of instilling saline into the woman's gut rather than the amniotic sac. The pain is so unbearable the client may throw herself off the table. This is exactly what the unborn child does in his mother's womb. In fact the mother can feel this. One woman, who had a saline abortion, described it this way:

          " . . . Once they put in the saline there is no way to reverse it. And for the next hour and a half I felt my daughter thrash around violently while she was being choked, poisoned, burned, and suffocated to death. I didn't know any of that was going to happen. And I remember talking to her and I remember telling her I didn't want to do this, I wished she could live. And yet she was dying and I remember her very last kick on her left side. She had no strength left. I delivered my daughter whose name is now Charmaine Marie. She was 14 inches long. She weighed over a pound and a half. She had a head of hair and her eyes were opening."

        5. Hysterotomy
          1. used in last trimester
          2. baby removed as in a Cesarean birth
          3. baby set aside and allowed to die or killed by a deliberate act
        6. Prostaglandin
          1. Prostaglandin hormones injected into womb or released in
          2. vaginal suppository cause uterus to contract and deliver baby prematurely
          3. sometimes a saline solution is used to kill baby before the premature birth
        7. RU 486
          1. synthetic steroid used 5-7 weeks after conception
          2. deprives baby of vital nutritional hormone progesterone
          3. Child starves to death as nutrient lining of the womb sloughs off
          4. deliver a dead baby
          5. Not safe
            1. In France, the woman must sign a document acknowledging the risks of taking RU 486
            2. prolonged bleeding (average 10 days)
            3. severe cramps
            4. nausea
            5. diarrhea
            6. headache
            7. skin rash
            8. vomiting
        8. D & X: Partial Birth Abortion
          1. He gives details of each of these steps. For the fifth and six steps, he explains that an assistant will use ultrasound to determine which way the baby is facing and to find his feet ("lower extremities"). Then:
          2. The surgeon introduces a large grasping forcep, such as Bierer or Hern, through the vaginal and cervical canals into the corpus of the uterus. Based upon his knowledge of fetal orientation, he moves the tip of the instrument carefully towards the fetal lower extremities. When the instrument appears on the sonogram screen, the surgeon is able to open and close its jaws to firmly and reliably grasp a lower extremity. The surgeon then ... pulls the extremity into the vagina.

            With a lower extremity in the vagina, the surgeon uses his fingers to deliver the opposite lower extremity, then the torso, the shoulders and the upper extremities.

            The skull lodges at the internal cervical os. Usually there is not enough dilation for it to pass through. The fetus is oriented dorsum, or spine up.

            At this point, the right-handed surgeon slides the fingers of the left hand along the back of the fetus and "hooks" the shoulders of the fetus with the index and ring fingers (palm down). Next he slides the tip of the middle finger along the spine towards the skull while applying traction to the shoulders and lower extremities. The middle finger lifts and pushes the anterior cervical lip out of the way.

            While maintaining this tension, lifting the cervix and applying traction to the shoulders with the fingers of the left hand, the surgeon takes a pair of blunt curved Metzenbaum scissors in the right hand. He carefully advances the tip, curved down along the spine and under his middle finger until he feels it contact the base of the skull under the tip of his middle finger.

            Reassessing proper placement of the closed scissors tip and safe elevation of the cervix, the surgeon then forces the scissors into the base of the skull or into the foramen magnum. Having safely entered the skull, he spreads the scissors to enlarge the opening.

            The surgeon removes the scissors and introduces a suction catheter into this hole and evacuates the skull contents. With the catheter still in place, he applies traction to the fetus, removing it completely from the patient.

            A partial-birth abortion involves delivering a living, late-term baby, feet first, except for the head, and then puncturing the skull with scissors and suctioning out the brain. If the child were to be pulled out 3 more inches and then stabbed in the skull with scissors, the person responsible would be charged with homicide. But this child is only four-fifths of the way born, so it's called an abortion: a partial-birth abortion.

          3. If you did this "procedure" to a dog in Ohio, you'd be jailed for cruelty. So how can President Clinton support it? How can even the most hardened pro-abortion groups lobby for it? With a campaign of misinformation, of course.
  1. The Philosophy Behind Abortion Shows That We are Without Natural Affection
    1. Choice is greater than life
    2. Financial Considerations are greater than life
    3. Convenience is greater than life
    4. Future well being is more important than the baby's future
    5. My quality of life is more important than the baby's life (whether it is a quality life or not)
  2. Path to Becoming "Without Natural Affection"
    1. Rejection of God (note passage)
    2. Acceptance of evolution (man is merely an animal)
    3. Devaluation of human life
      1. If I can abort 1.2 million per year, then why not kill it three minutes after delivery and go on dancing?
      2. Illus. of illogical nature of their position

      Stepahnie and Sandra Bartels of Hull, Iowa. They are twins born in South Dakota hospital 88 days apart by what is called "delayed-interval delivery." Stephanie, born Jan. 5, when her mother went into premature labor in the 23rd week of pregnancy, weighed 1 lb. 2 ounces. Sandra, weighing 7 lbs., 10 ounces, was born April 2, by which time Stephanie weighed 4 lbs., 10 ounces. For 88 days, while her twin sister was protected by law, Sandra could have been aborted by an abortionist.

    4. Selfishness
      1. Note that all of the arguments for abortion are selfish in nature.
      2. "Lovers of self"
    5. Covetous
      1. Things, money, become more important
      2. When your affection (love of money, greed) is misplaced, then it leads to losing your natural affection.
  3. The Road to Affection
    1. We must demonstrate compassion
      1. Vitriolic language will not win the battle for us, it will only re-enforce the media stereotype that we are mean-spirited, women haters
      2. Reach out to those who find themselves with an "unwanted" pregnancy.
      3. Adoption must be made a reachable goal
    2. We must get involved
      1. Volunteer at a local pregnancy center
      2. Donate items to these centers
      3. Be open to adoption
      4. Vote only for pro-life candidates
      5. Sue abortionists for medical problems, raise their insurance rates and make it impossible for them to practice
      6. Spread the word
      7. Share information with as many people as possible

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