Untying the Family Noose: Where is Ward Cleaver?

 

Text: Genesis 18:19

Introduction:

Dear Editor,

In a recent interview, CBS Evening News anchor Dan Rather accused Christians of being homophobes and hate mongers because of their opposition to the homosexual lifestyle. Also, Councilman Al Boris of Wilkes-Barre has been on the hotseat due to some derogatory remarks he made about homosexuals. As a result, the attention in the media has focused on the treatment, or mistreatment, of homosexuals. Yet, there has been little, if any, discussion about the nature of the homosexual lifestyle from a medical or social point of view. And what has been said has been devoid of facts. For example, The Advocate, the nation's largest magazine for homosexuals, quotes Joycelyn Elders, the Surgeon General for the United States, as saying that sex is "a normal part and healthy part of our being, whether it is homosexual or heterosexual." She then goes on to support homosexual adoptions and criticizes the Boy Scouts of America for not allowing gay scout leaders.

Elders, along with those promoting the gay agenda, claim that anti-gay attitudes are founded on an irrational fear of sexuality. They characterize everyone who disagrees with the gay agenda as homophobes, bigots, and hate mongers. They fail to recognize that many of us who reject the gay agenda, do so based on strong medical and historical evidence that homosexuality is detrimental to society as a whole, as well as the individual. We oppose the gay agenda, not because we are homophobes, but because we feel it is injurious to our society.

Consider, for example, the following medical statistics (which, by the way, should be common knowledge for Joycelyn Elders, since she does hold the highest medical position in the United States):

· homosexuals are 41 times more likely to get syphilis1

· homosexuals are 10 time more likely to have Hepatitis B2

· homosexuals are 5 times more likely to have other STD’s3

· 15-30% of gays are HIV positive, compared to less than 1% of heterosexuals4

· 70-78% of gays report having had a sexually transmitted disease5

Consider, also, the affect that the homosexual lifestyle has on the life span of homosexuals. When obituaries of homosexuals were compared to those of the rest of the population, the results are startling. For non-homosexuals, the median age of death of married men was 75 and 80% of them died old (age 65 or older). For unmarried or divorced men, the median age of death was 57 and 32% died old. Married women averaged 79 at death while 85% died old. Unmarried and divorce women averaged 71 and 60% died old.6

On the other hand, the median age of death for homosexuals was significantly lower. In fact, less than 2% lived to old age. As for the median age of death, if the cause of death was AIDS, the median age was only 39. For those who died of other causes, the median age of death was a paltry 42 and only 9% died old. Lesbians fared a little better, with the median age of death being 45 while 26% died old.7 The evidence is overwhelming that homosexuality poses a grave danger to one’s health. In fact, homosexuality is far more dangerous than cigarette smoking!

Not only should the medical statistics alarm us, but so should the practices of homosexuals. Consider the following behavioral patterns of homosexuals taken from the major surveys on homosexual behavior.

· gays average between 10 and 110 different sexual partners per year, greatly increasing the risk of contracting and passing on STD's8

· gays average 68 rectal encounters per year. Rectal intercourse is probably the most sexually efficient way to spread Hepatitis B & C, HIV, syphilis and other blood-borne diseases.9

· one-third of gays admit to fisting (where the hand is inserted into the rectum). This practice often results in tears of the rectum resulting in the transmission of blood-borne diseases and the possibility of rectal damage resulting in the patient being confined to diapers for life.10

· 80% admit to licking/inserting their tongues into the anus of partners, thus ingesting medically significant amounts of feces.11 The result is that the "annual incidence of hepatitis A in . . . homosexual men was 22 per cent, whereas no heterosexual men acquired hepatitis A."12

· 25% of white gays admitted to sex with boys 16 or younger.13 In other words, 25% engaged in molestation!

These figures should alarm us. One reason that they haven’t is that they have been hidden from the American people. We have not been told the whole story about the homosexual movement. The homosexual movement has succeeded in painting a much rosier picture of itself than is actually the case. They have made homosexuality a civil rights issue, rather than a medical issue. As a result, our society as a whole is threatened from the rampages of STD's as well as the financial burden of paying for these problems, and we our powerless to say anything because it supposedly violates their civil rights.

Yet, I have a right to protect my kids from a lifestyle that is self-destructive. That is why I do not want that kind of lifestyle legitimized in the media. Just as I don’t want to glamorize cigarette smoking because it is self-destructive behavior, so too, I don’t want to glamorize the homosexual lifestyle. More importantly, I want to protect my kids from the 25% of homosexuals who admit to molestation. The truth is that they cannot reproduce naturally, so they must do it by recruiting. How do they recruit? By taking advantage of underage kids--molestation!

One final word, throughout history, all civilizations and major religions have condemned homosexuality. No society has ever survived that has tolerated its practice. It is self-destructive behavior that weakens society. Joycelyn Elders, if she is so concerned about self-destructive behavior, should quit promoting the gay lifestyle and expose everyone to the medical data. Homosexual behavior is far more destructive than second-hand smoke (or first hand smoke for that matter). Let’s quit hiding the gay lifestyle behind the smoke screen of civil rights and confront the issue with the facts. You don’t have to be a homophobe to oppose the gay lifestyle. You just have to know the facts.

  1. Family Faith (Gen. 15:6)
    1. Abraham believed God and it was counted to him for righteousness
    2. Salvation is a necessity
      1. All kids are sinners by nature and need salvation
      2. Parental concern to see our kids saved and living for the Lord
    3. Sanctification
      1. This is a part of salvation
      2. Church attendance
        1. Once a week not enough
          1. 1-2 hours versus 36 at school, 20 TV
          2. I don’t understand why a parent who wants to teach their kids biblical values won’t make sure that they are at church every time the door is open.
        2. Child learns what is valuable by what you value
      3. Consistent living at home
        1. Abraham’s lie was manifested in Isaac later in life
        2. If you are irregular, your kids will be
        3. If you give the Lord leftover time, talents, etc., so will your kids
        4. Don’t complain, "What happened to my kid. Why did he do this or that" when you are inconsistent and unfaithful.
        5. One thing that keeps me faithful is my kids
  2. Family Order
    1. Abraham was His kids father, not just their buddy
      1. Verses
        1. Text verse 18:19 He will command
        2. Joshua "As for me and my house we will serve the Lord."
        3. The thing that impresses me most about America is the way parents obey their children.—Edward, Duke of Windsor
      2. Ricardo Montalbon quote:
      3. "Dear Son,

        "As long as you live in this house you will follow the rules. When you have your own house, you can make your own rules. In this house we do not have a democracy. I did not campaign to be your father. You did not vote for me. We are father and son by the grace of God, and I accept that privilege and awesome responsibility. In accepting it I have an obligation to perform the role of a father.

        "I am not your pal. Our ages are too different. We can share many things, but we are not pals. I am your father. This is 100 times more than what a pal is. I am also your friend, but we are on entirely different levels. You will do, in this house, as I say, and you cannot question me because whatever I ask you to do is motivated by love. This will be hard for you to understand until you have a son of your own. Until then, trust me.

        "Your Father"

      4. Watched over Isaac’s marriage. He sent out servant to get a wife for Isaac.
    2. Head over his wife
      1. 1 Pet. 3:6
      2. Spiritual leadership in the home
        1. We need Godly men, fathers who will lead their families spiritually.
        2. Where are the men who
          1. Make the Bible the centerpiece of the home?
          2. Who pray with their wives and kids every day?
          3. Make sure their kids are in church?
          4. Who see to it that God is not just an add on in the family but the crux of the family?
  3. Family Altar (Gen. 12:7)
    1. Deut. 6:4-6
    2. Family altar will alter your family
    3. Jews had a system of teaching religious values and heritage
    4. We need to specifically, systematically teach our kids what to believe, how to behave, why we believe, etc.

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